Category Archives: Relationships

Getting Ahead By Getting Along

For five years, Wolfgang Dircks had received little notes from annoyed neighbors at his apartment in Hamburg.  One read, “You have again failed to sweep the staircase.”

17 families shared the same apartment complex.  They knew little about Dircks, except that he was divorced, disabled, and challenging to get along with.  Left crippled after a hip surgery, he was a bitter, lonely man.  Yet the neighbors would put his name on the rotation for chores, and he always missed his turn.  They simply dismissed it as the inconsiderate and stubborn man he was.  No one thought about ringing his doorbell and asking, “Why?”

Then one day, to their surprise, they discovered why.   Continue reading

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People Matter

In his book “A Gentle Thunder” Max Lucado tells the story of Karen Hill who is an Administrate Assistant in Austin, Texas.  Karen underwent surgery in a local hospital and when she  awoke in the recovery room, she could hear the moaning of a fellow patient.  She could hear a sympathetic nurse trying to comfort him.

“Settle down, Tom,” she said.” But still he moaned.  “It’s all right, Tom.  Just go with the pain.”

The man was quiet for a few moments, but began groaning again. “It’s okay, Tom. You’ll be fine.”  Finally the patient spoke.  Continue reading

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Spiritual Kinship

Kinship.  I just got to thinking about it. I’m not sure why.  It’s not a word you hear used a lot anymore.  You used to.  Someone would say, “I know your kinfolks!”  Or “Are you all kin?”   Continue reading

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Little Things Mean A Lot

 My Franklin Planner has a quote or motivational saying for each day on the calendar.  They are all good.  But this one jumped out at me.  “Nobody made a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could only do a little.” –Edmund Burke Continue reading

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How To Overcome Pain in Relationships

Here’s more proof that guys just don’t get it!

Anna Mackowiak and Marek Olszewski are a Polish couple that endured a nasty break up as reported by Eric Pfeiffer on Yahoo News.  A few days later, Marek had a severe toothache and went to see his ex who is a Dentist.  However, things took a bad turn.  Very quickly! Continue reading

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Blessing One Another

In a Peanuts cartoon Lucy demanded that Linus change the TV channel.  “What makes you think you can walk right in here and take over?  asks Linus  “These five fingers,” says Lucy.  “Individually they’re nothing but when I curl them together like this into a single fist they form a weapon that is terrible to behold.” Continue reading

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