“Making disciples, not members,” was the title of a Christian Chronicle article by Calvin Cockrell, I recently read online.
In it Cockrell quotes Quincy Byrdsong a minister at the Simpson Street Church of Christ in Atlanta, who said, “We have to quit just baptizing and not making disciples.”
Speaking to a workshop group on “God’s Standard for Ministry” Byrdsong referenced what we call the Great Commission in Matthew 28:19-20 where Jesus instructed his disciples, “Go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.”
“Those are two discrete actions,” Byrdsong noted. “We’ve got to make learners and pupils. What good is it going to do me to get baptized and I’m not a learner and an imitator of Jesus Christ? Is the baptism the only thing that I need? … Baptism gets me into this life of discipleship.”
Byrdsong’s point is spot on. For too long too many churches, pastors, and preachers left the new convert on their own to grow in their discipleship. Oh, there were Bible classes, Sunday morning and evening worship, sermons, and Gospel Meetings, but often in years past they lacked intentionally of discipling people.
In a lesson on “The Neglect of discipleship,” minister Ellis Stanley Sr. called discipleship “the intentional process of following Jesus, becoming more like him and helping others to do the same.”
Author Bill Hull defined discipleship as “The intentional training of disciples, with accountability, on the basis of loving relationships.” In his book The Antioch Effect, Ken Hemphill observed that “Discipleship is an on going process, not a quick fix.” He further opined that discipleship is a process, not an event.
These quotes remind us that discipleship must be Jesus focused. Intentional. Ongoing. And relationship oriented.
In our post COVID culture, too many Christians have been content to sit on the comfort their couch and worship at home on line. This short-circuits an important ingredient in discipleship–fellowship. There must be joint participation. Sharing. One-another involvement.
Just a cursory pursual of the book of Acts shows the first century disciples were attached to the Body of Christ. Daily meetings and gathering in homes were the norm. They were intimately involved in each others lives. That’s a part of discipleship. (Acts. 2:42-47).
Thankfully, more churches are taking discipleship seriously. With special classes, online resources, mentorship, and Bible curriculums designed to meet the varying needs of Christians who are at different stages of growth, discipleship has become more intentional.
But what is a new Christian to do who’s part of a smaller church that either lacks resources or the will to intentionally disciple new converts?
#1 Take responsibility for your own spiritual growth.
This is true even when there are resources available, each disciple is individually accountable to God for his own development (Gal. 6:5).
#2 Regularly engage in Bible study.
Getting into the Word makes us stronger, builds our faith, and provides Divine guidance for daily living (2 Tim. 2:15; Ax. 17:11).
#3 Pray daily.
Set aside time throughout the day for conversation with God. Like Daniel of old, praying morning, noon, and night, is a good habit to develop. It will draw us closer to God.
#4 Go to worship service every Sunday.
Unless sick or legitimately hindered, make weekly worship with your brethren a set-aside special time for fellowship, praise, and personal connection.
#5 Seek Mentorship.
Is there a Christian in your congregation you can connect with? Someone to rely on, seek advice, and share concerns and who sets a Christ-like example you can emulate?
#6 Read Christian literature.
Theologically sound books, magazines, and e-magazines will offer perspectives and insights to challenge your thinking and help you grow. Be aware there’s a lot junk in some “Christian bookstores” and on Amazon. Seek the advice from preachers and/or pastors for reading suggestions.
#7 Devotional Blogs.
Of course, I recommend ThePreachersWord as a means to spend a few minutes each day reflecting on a spiritual idea. But there are others I suggest on my page helpful links.
#8 Online Resources from Churches.
Also on my helpful links page are links to a few churches that have excellent material which is free of charge. They will also introduce you to preachers whose lessons will challenge and encourage you.
#9 Make personal application.
Discipleship is not just about learning and gaining knowledge. It’s about doing. Being. And becoming conformed to the image of Jesus. In all of our learning, we should ask, “How does that apply to me?” “How can I use that information?” “In what areas do I need to improve?”
Jesus reminds us that discipleship is not always easy or convenient. There is a price to be paid in terms of total commitment, Divine consecration, faithful constancy, and character development (Lk. 14:25-33).
As C. S. Lewis expressed it in Mere Christianity, “Christ says, ‘Give me all. I don’t want so much of your time and so much of your money and so much of your work: I want You.’”
–Ken Weliever, The Preacherman

Being a disciple is an Ecumenical Affair and a Journey. One of my earliest memories is a backseat moment. I was in the car with my Dad and my Mom and my older sister. I was about 3. We must have been going home after Church …and Sunday School because I was singing “Jesus Loves Me”. As a child I went to Sunday School every Sunday, even when my parents stopped attending regularly.
As a teen, I stopped attending. However when I fell in love with a young man and got married…the minister we approached said. “I know your type, you’re the hatched, matched, dispatched type of Christian.” That stung.
When I was a young wife ad homemaker of 32…I had become involved in a little church called St John’s. The first bible class consisted of Three key texts. John 4: 1-26, The woman of Sum Maria, Luke 19: 1-10, Zacchaeus and Paul’s Conversion, Acts 26:14. These texts goaded me.
Something was fishy about the way these texts were given to show Jesus in the Light and the character he was speaking with in the Dark or off the Mark. In John the story unfolds at NOON. In Luke on the JERICHO ROAD and in Acts on the DAMASCUS ROAD.
Because Jesus said to the Woman of Sum Maria…I am he who is speaking to you…I assumed Jesus the Teacher she met was the Christ ( I failed to pick up on John 4:10 and link it to John 1: 47 and John 3: 1-21; 28-29) and that he was he because he was speaking with her at NOON…in the fullness of time.
However, I was blinded by that LIGHT and could not explain why the light inside me was picking up on the fishiness of the way these stories were being told and were being linked together as people travelled together to and fro on the roads leading in and out of Jerusalem.
The more I kicked at these three Gospel stories, I became convinced that the person in the Dark was the Woman Jesus and she was either the long lost sister of Jesus the Teacher or the Bride of Christ.
Suffice to say it took a journey out to an Ecumenical Affair held in my hometown more than 40 years ago now, and a lot of bible studies with a lot of disciples since then to uncover how the Woman Jesus called PURE aka Virgin became the Mother of God…and how and why she became the Advocate, the comforter, the blanket, that keeps people under a pall of darkness to this day.
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Hello my Good Brother in Christ enjoyed the lesson. We have spent more time on baptism, and not enough in teaching and discipling. In these times the Body of Christ needs to spend more time in the spiritual growth of it’s members.
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