How Close Are You To God?


Have you heard about the old couple, Jeb and Mabel, riding along in their car one day? Of course, Jeb’s driving. And Mabel’s on the passenger side.

Mabel begins to reminisce when they were younger and how much in love they were. “Remember, those Sunday afternoon drives we used to take together, Jeb?

“You know,” Mabel continued, “we used to sit real close together when we when out for a drive.”

Ole Jeb, tightened his grip on the steering wheel and looking straight ahead replied, “I ain’t never moved.”

When we feel disconnected from God. When He seems distant. Far off. Unapproachable. And it seems we’ve lost that closeness. I wonder if He’s looking down saying, “I ain’t never moved.

This week I’m thinking about my relationship with God a lot since I’m peaching my series “Experiencing Intimacy With God” for the Etna church in Ozark, Arkansas.

I know using the word “intimacy” gives some folks a slightly uneasy feeling when talking about God. We often use the word referring to a romantic relationship between a husband and wife. Yet, the word means “a close, familiar, loving relationship with another person.”

Intimacy speaks of closeness. Communion. Commonality Familiarity. Friendship. Warmth. And affection.

Modern religious writers have described our desire to enjoy a relationship with God in various ways. Mike Cope calls it “holy hunger.” Martin DeHann refers to it as a “radical reliance.” Joe Beam speaks of it as a “craving.” And my friend Dee Bowman often describes it as “divine association.”

The challenge Christians often face in developing this relationship is described by John Eldredge this way. “Communion with God is replaced by activity for God.” To overcome this barrier Eldredge encourages us to think of our relationship as a “Sacred Romance.” If this sounds a little weird, consider the words of David in Psalm 63.

“Because your steadfast love is better than life, my lips will praise you…On my bed I remember you; I think of you through the watches of the night. Because you are my help, I sing in the shadow of your wings. My soul clings to you; your right hand upholds me”

No wonder David is called “a man after God’s own heart.” David was in love with the Lord. Just a casual perusal of the Psalms impresses us with David’s longing for spiritual intimacy with God. Although Bible characters often encountered a more direct communication with the Lord, we can “draw near to God” as we learn of Him through the “Book of Nature” and the “Book of Revelation,” the Bible.

God desires for His people to seek Him. To come to Him. To commune with Him. To communicate with Him. To enjoy fellowship with Him. In fact, Paul pictures God as calling us to leave behind the darkness of sin, and the fellowship of the world, and to come to Him. He declares that He will be our Father. And that we can be his children–His sons and daughters(2 Cor. 6:17-18).

Part of the challenge of a close communion with God may lie in our genuine desire and effort to develop our relationship with God. In his book, One Holy Hunger, Mike Cope writes, “When our vision of God diminishes or fails to grow, Christianity becomes a tame, drab, lukewarm, safe religion that fits comfortably into our malnourished world view.” Could it be that we want to live as we please, asking for divine favor, and neglect to “draw near to the heart of God?”

Our attitude needs to be that of Asaph, the Psalmist, who penned, “But it is good for me to draw near to God; I have put my trust in the Lord God, that I may declare all Your works” (Ps 73:28).

As we assemble on the Lord’s day to sing, pray, listen to the Word, and enjoy fellowship, let us draw near to the heart of God, and worship with awe and reverence “in the spirit of holiness.”

When we leave the assembly may we seek to walk in His way in our work. Our family life. And our social relationships. Instead of trying to squeeze God into what we already feel, believe or practice, we need to draw near to God. Come to know His heart. His Word. His plan for our lives.

Know this. If you don’t feel close to God, He ain’t never moved.

–Ken Weliever, The Preacherman

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  1. Ken. Thank you for this post. Mabel and Jeb are a wonder filled example of intimacy. I wonder how many people see God the Father and God’s Heart sitting in the front seat of their journey.

    Your post allows me to imagine God like an old couple. Mabel is trying to stay connected to Jeb and rekindle the romance they had when they started out. He thinking like a stone age man…like a guy in the driver’s seat… has his hands tightly on the steering wheel. Perhaps, they are on their way to make peace with a neighbour and his wife on a Sunday afternoon. The way is full of speed bumps and round a-bouts. He’s got a lot on his mind, and the grandkids are in the back seat doing what kids do. Plugged into their devices …texting or muttering…saying are we there yet, do they have wifi there, why do we have to go there???

    Gripping the wheel, Gramps longs for the old days when he could lay down the law in a thunderous voice and Gran and the kids would obey and give him the silence he needs to think and compose songs. Now with a sigh, Gramps says to Gran. I ain’t never moved.

    Gran has a big crux weighing heavy on her heart. Things have changed. Cars no longer have bench seats. The driverless car is about to revolutionize driving and technology and the LGBTQ+ generation are revolutionizing intimacy. So what can Gran do or say to get Gramps to open up? How can Gran get Gramps to show his “heart” and his kids and grandkids and neighbours he has never stopped loving Gran? Gran knows deep down in her heart that Gramps will always love her and will always be her dear HART. She knows she is his HEART and he is her HART. She wants her grandkids to know this and to see it and realize it for themselves (Song of Solomon 8:14; Acts 9:36).


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