John Piper once wrote that sin (lust for example) “gets its power by persuading me to believe that I will be more happy if I follow it. The power of all temptation is the prospect that it will make me happier.”
Piper’s observation reminds me of a true story that occurred several years ago. To protect the innocent, as well as the guilty, I will refer to the two married couples as Jason and Judy and Matt and Jen.
These four begin spending a lot of time together. They had a good bit in common. Including fellowship in the church where I preached. Some of their entertainment choices and activities began to bring them in closer contact with each other’s spouses than was prudent.
We don’t know when, but a flirtation developed between Jason and Jen that finally consummated into a full blown sexual affair. This continued in secret until Jason and Jen left their spouses and moved in together.
The church was shocked. Matt and Judy were devastated. Their children were heartbroken.
When the elders went to talk Jason and Jen there would be no remorse. No repentance. Jason justified their actions by saying, “Judy didn’t make me happy. Jen does. I think God wants me to be happy.”
God promises us that with every temptation there is always a way of escape. But Jason and Jen didn’t look for it. Instead, they fanned the flames of their lust. And believed that succumbing to their temptation would make them happier.
Today’s passage in Matthew 4 records the Tempter’s attack on Jesus.
Jesus’ temptation reminds us that no one is exempt from Satan’s attempts to lure us into sinful behavior. Not even the son of God. It’s worth noting that Jesus’ temptation followed the account of His baptism. Sound familiar? Our obedience to the gospel does not eliminate temptation. In fact, Satan may increase his assaults to attempt to win us back.
The text tells us that Jesus was alone in the wilderness. There were no adoring crowds. No disciples eager to hear his message. No friends. Just Jesus. And the devil. I’ve noticed a similar pattern. I don’t have too many temptations at church. Or enjoying fellowship with other Christians. But when alone, just with your private thoughts, Satan will look for a way to tempt you.
Jesus’ was tempted in three different ways. (1) To turn the stones into bread to satisfy his hunger. (2) To worship Satan to receive the kingdoms of the world; (3) To prove He was the Son of God by jumping from the pinnacle of the temple. These allurements appealed to the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the pride of life.
Satan employed the same tactics when he tempted Eve in the garden of Eden. The fruit appealed to her. It was pleasant to the eyes. And it promised to make her wise like God.
The devil’s devices haven’t changed. So, the beloved John warns us with these ever appropriate words.
“Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world — the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life — is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.” ( I Jn. 2:15-17)
Times have changed. Technology has advanced. Modern means of displaying and conveying sin have become more sophisticated, but Satan still appeals to our basic lusts and pride to lead us astray.
Temptation presents itself in different forms, shapes, and sizes. It may indeed appear through a person, or something we see, read, or hear. It may be an advertisement. An internet pop up. A facebook ad. A cell phone text. It may involve a fleeting feeling or a random thought that seemingly comes “out of the blue.”
Jesus was victorious over temptation as He relied on the Word and replied to each enticement with the words: “It is written.” The practice of the Psalmist comes to mind, “Your word I have hidden in my heart, That I might not sin against You” (Ps 119:11). Store scripture up in your heart to fight against Satan’s schemes.
Finally, remember as William Barclay opined, “Temptation is not meant to make us fail. It is meant to confront us with a situation out of which we emerge stronger than we were.”
–Ken Weliever, The Preacherman.
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I had an affair that changed my life. It woke me up to the fact that I was indeed unevenly yoked to my husband. My affair mirrors the story of Zachaeus. I went out to the 6th Assembly of the World Council of Churches and participated in the Worship in a BIG Circus Yellow Tent that many of us locals travelled along the Jericho Beach Road to reach.
I wrote my book “The Ecumenical Affair” to ask how and why this happened? Because when “The Renowned Teacher” of the Assembly…asked to stay at my house, I agreed.
Am I sorry? Well this one night cost me dearly. After the Teacher left and returned to his wife and family in Greece, I longed to have a connection with him and be forgiven by his wife and reconciled to his and my community of faith.
For under the cover of darkness, I realized I was the woman caught and trapped in adultery. God was indeed working in my life.
So I redoubled my efforts to make my marriage a happy and fulfilled one. When I came clean and told my husband of my one night affair, he admitted that he had been having an affair with my best friend for two years. So we both agreed it was important to stay together for the sake of the children and work at our marriage. He even agreed he would make more of an effort to attend church.
Well in the end we failed and we finally got a divorce and divided up the family property etc. Divorce is not a happy solution. Make no mistake. Divorce hurts and kills the family.
Now one precious thing I have learned from my faith journey is that there is life after death. I am certain.
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