A Probing, Penetrating Question

“If you were to die today, what one thing (or a few things) would you be most disappointed that you weren’t able to complete?”

This question was posted by my facebook friend and preaching colleague, Warren Berkley, who publishes a blog aptly named Berksblog.

Warren shared the quote from a book by Joshua Becker entitled, “Things That Matter: Overcoming Distractions To Pursue a More Meaningful Life.”

Some responded to Warren’s post with regrets on fractured relationships with family that were never resolved. Others lamented their concern over loved ones who had not obeyed gospel. Others with personal projects that were unfinished.

I’m not sure that Warren necessarily intended for people to post their answers. One person wrote, “That is way to deep to answer honestly on this format.”

Warren responded, “No requirement to answer. Just asking all of us to think at a level that might lead to better discipleship.”

Having attended the funeral service today of a sister in Christ ten years younger than me, Warren’s question elicited my attention. And serious thought.

I can think of a few things I would like to accomplish and/or see to their conclusion in the years I have left.

How about you?

When I clicked the link to Becker’s book, Amazon whetted my appetite to order it by reading the first chapter–”A Life With No Regrets–Beginning With the End in View.” In it, he speaks of the importance of knowing our purpose, and the mistake of putting “the inconsequential ahead of the imperative.”

Becker states that besides his faith and his family, the one thing he wants to accomplish is helping people live an intentional life. A meaningful life. A life that truly makes a difference.

“You can do something now to live the life you want to live,” Becker writes.

Let that sink in.

Today matters. Because today the only day we have.

Becker reminds us that the path to true happiness in life is to live your life in alignment with your values and passions. Don’t waste time on things that don’t matter. Don’t allow distraction to consume your time, or side track you from what your true purpose is.

“How we get to the end of our lives with minimal regrets?” Becker asks.

The answer? “We choose well. We set aside lesser pursuits to seek meaning in our lives. And we do it every single day.”

Becker’s advice is nothing new. It’s as old as the Bible itself. The Psalmist offered this challenge. “Teach us to number our days aright, that we may gain a heart of wisdom” (Ps. 90:12).

The Preacher also reminds us “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might; for there is no work or device or knowledge or wisdom in the grave where you are going” (Eccl. 9:10).

Jesus recognized this truth during his short 3 ½ year ministry when he said, “I must work the works of Him who sent Me while it is day; the night is coming when no one can work” (Jn. 9:4).

To this end, the apostle Paul urged us to be opportunistic in the management of our time.

“Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is” (Eph. 5:15-17).

I join with my friend Warren to let Becker’s question lead you to better discipleship. Today.

As H. Jackson Brown wrote, “The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today.”

–Ken Weliever, The Preacherman